remembering lessons learned from my two fathers on this Father’s Day, 2016

keep an open mind
no matter what you hear
a loving heart
no matter how you are treated
never forget the blood in your veins
where you come from is who you are
take the high road
over pettiness and jealousy
don’t avert your eyes
from injustice to anyone
always be kind
to all, yes, all
follow your own path
no matter how lonely
seek knowledge
wherever it lies
always have passion
for what who
you love

on writing by John Updike

zdunno03's avatarLeonard Durso

“When I write, I aim in my mind not toward New York but toward a vague spot a little east of Kansas. I think of books on library shelves, without their jackets, years old, and a countryish teen-aged boy finding them, and having them speak to him. The reviews, the stacks in Brentano’s, are just hurdles to get over, to place the books on that shelf.”

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on again/off again OR an explanation of sorts

This morning is the beginning of my last leg(s) of my visit here in the US.

First to New Jersey for a fast-breaking (I’m sure I’m forgiven because it’s family) barbecue with my brothers.

Then Sunday. a reunion with some of my old staff from my ESL days.

Monday, it’s visiting old friends (including my family dentist of two generations), returning the rental car (trains & subways from this day forward), the Turkish Consulate to get my passport stamped for my work visa, a visit with an old friend from the days I lived on the West Side of NYC in the early 1970s, last minute errands, maybe a last dinner in Manhattan with a special friend.

Tuesday  the Consulate once again to pick up my passport/pay the fee and then seeing the last love of my life and getting my mail.

Wednesday, JFK and home.

Sooooo, I shall be a sporadic blogger until settled once again in Istanbul on Thursday.

Be well all of you and to Jeff & Emily, my real life friends now, thanks for my visit which was a special treat. All you other friends & family know that already.